You were never meant to just survive.
I survived foster "care" myself. I know what it means to grow up too fast, without safety, and without anyone who truly saw you. I also know you can carry that energy for decades, long after you've done the work to move on.
For a long time I was surviving, not living. My own healing has been about returning to the Heather I was before the trauma and cruelty of childhood. I love meeting her again, and I want that for you.
No matter where you come from or what has happened, everything you need to know is right in your heart and soul. My work is to help you clear what was put on you, so you can meet the person you were before all of it.
If you've ever felt that something is wrong with you
So many of us who grew up in foster care carry the feeling that we don't belong anywhere. You can be in the room and still feel like you're on the outside looking in. Somewhere along the way, it's easy to decide that something must be wrong with you.
Please know you are not alone, and nothing is wrong with you. What you carry is grief: for the safety, the family and the childhood you deserved. That grief deserves to be felt. Together we can sit with it, love the parts of you that still hurt, and let them heal.
This work is for you if you are
- An adult who grew up in foster care
- A young adult aging out of the system
- Still carrying what happened, even after years of work on it
- Ready to find out who you are without it
- Searching for your truth and peace